The truth is we rarely get seriously upset at each other for not remembering birthdays nor leaving the dishes unwashed, the issues are often below the surface. Smoke & Mirror is what Dr. Phil calls this emotion. If we feel love everyday, a birthday celebration is just cherry on top. If we feel our partner is helping us share the loads of life, the occasional dirty dishes won’t turn into a big fight.
How can we recognize the truth and hence true feelings and deeper issues in our relationships? Dr. Phil decodes 10 myths that most of us are guilty of believing.
~ Vivian Luu